XXL Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 http://nypost.com/2014/07/12/in-defense-of-madonnas-wild-love-life/ In defense of Madonna's wild love life Last month, while stepping out in New York to catch a Broadway play, Madonna showed off her latest, ahem, acquisition. No, it wasn’t a newly discovered arm muscle from dancing 15 hours a day, the latest piece of Dior couture or a precious toddler orphan from Malawi. It was her 26-year-old boy toy, Timor Steffens. The 55-year-old pop star has been reportedly romancing the youthful Dutch choreographer — who has worked with everyone from Beyoncé to Michael Jackson — since New Year’s Eve, when the pair met at designer Valentino’s Swiss château. The revelation of this May-December relationship was about as shocking as Thursday coming after Wednesday. Since her 2008 split from her fair-haired English director hubby, Guy Ritchie, her Madgesty has enjoyed the carnal company of swarthy, pillow-lipped young bucks with freakishly sculpted abs who could have been plucked from the same aesthetic conveyor belt. First, there were reports she hooked up with A-Rod, who was a full-grown man of 32 — but still a good 17 years younger than Madonna. But in 2009 she really went for it: heavenly Brazilian model Jesus Luz was a babe of 22 when the then-51-year-old snared him. Then there was French dancer Brahim Zaibat, who was born in 1988, the year “Like a Prayer” hit No. 1. At the tender age of 25, he was replaced by Steffens. God bless the ol’ gal — a lady’s gotta eat. Why shouldn’t she have the freshest ingredients? After all, Leonardo DiCaprio and newly engaged Adam Levine regularly go to the Victoria’s Secret dealership and pick out the latest model — then follow that up with the next limited-edition version. Before getting engaged to London barrister Amal Alamuddin, George Clooney practically made a cottage industry out of turning statuesque cocktail waitresses, C-list actresses and pro wrestlers into Cinderellas for a couple years before moving on. Those horndogs end up praised as desirable bachelors, while the Material Girl gets snarky comments — and not just from men. Sharon Osbourne called Madonna a “wet nurse” and said she was past her “sell-by date” while discussing the singer’s dalliance with Steffens on “The Talk.” And the comments section of any online story about Madonna’s dating life is like a middle-school slam book. Maybe that’s not just because of her cougar status, but because she’s the only female celeb right now sowing her oats. The otherwise unconventional Lady Gaga is in a serious relationship. Katy Perry is a serial monogamist who sticks to guys who are her equals, career- and fame-wise. And with Taylor Swift, it always seems like the tragic elements outweigh the fun. Madonna, like proto-cougar Cher before her, is all about fun. And she’s stood up for herself, explaining, “I didn’t, like, write down on a piece of paper, ‘I’m going to have a relationship with a younger man.’ That’s just what happened . . . I just met someone that I cared for, and this happened to be his age.” Why should she have to cruise ourtime.com for old farts? So go on Madge, (and Cher), keep chasing the young blood. Maybe someday, you’ll be seen as a woman instead of a desperate cougar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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jacket Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 The headline is rather misleading. What is wild about it, exactly? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Jazzy Jan Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 The headline is rather misleading. What is wild about it, exactly? Yes, I was thinking the same thing. In the context of it all, Madonna has not been as wild as most celebrities. She has had two marriages which she took very seriously and since her divorce from Guy Ritchie, she has had 2 long-term boyfriends ( Jesus and Brahim ) and one suspected boyfriend in Timor - we still don't know if they are dating. I think she is enjoying herself after the heart-ache of her marriage break-down as she seemed to put everything into her marriages which is understandable and what most people do when married. Either way, she is single and can pretty much do whatever she pleases. Life is too short to worry what other people think when it is none of their business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lights Above Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 "The otherwise unconventional Lady Gaga is in a serious relationship." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skin Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 Why would anyone feel the need to defend someone they don't even know when it comes to a relationship they are in anyway? The whole thing is dumb. If its adult and consensual who the hell cares whether you are for it or against it. Fuck off to both sides I say. Just let it be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pud Whacker Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 let it WILL be, skin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raf Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 Extra points since the article was written by a woman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pud Whacker Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 WAT - perfection! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachelle of London Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 Why do people care so much anyway? At least she's getting laid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRVC Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 Why do people care so much anyway? At least she's getting laid.Because shes a woman... Oh and being MADONNA might have something to do with it. Taking a shit would get her front page Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anastaza Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 Why do people care so much anyway? At least she's getting laid. I know. It bugs that these articles are even being written. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuzzy Dream Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 Since her 2008 split from her fair-haired English director hubby, Guy Ritchie, her Madgesty has enjoyed the carnal company of swarthy, pillow-lipped young bucks with freakishly sculpted abs who could have been plucked from the same aesthetic conveyor belt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuckeye Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 lets all hope it happens to us at that age!! womnp womp go madonna. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxianyxx Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Does her love life need defending? From jealous people who don't have one, I guess. But anyways I'm sure M pays no mind. What a Bitch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Platinum Gold Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 "Then there was French dancer Brahim Zaibat, who was born in 1988, the year “Like a Prayer” hit No. 1." WRONG! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurt420 Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 "Then there was French dancer Brahim Zaibat, who was born in 1988, the year “Like a Prayer” hit No. 1." WRONG! lol In the age of Google and Wiki there is just no excuse! Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nikki Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 and I think brahim's from 1985. the DSS years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s7ven Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Not gonna read it. I'm sure it's good spirited, but I refuse to entertain the notion that her love life (or anyone else's for that matter) needs defending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plasticlimbo Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 If I had to pick one, Timor is the best among them. He is talented and really focused on his carreer.And he's from the Netherlands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachelle of London Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 If I had to pick one, Timor is the best among them. He is talented and really focused on his carreer.And he's from the Netherlands. So was Brahim. When M met him he was already the Red Bull B Boy champion twice. Timor reminds me of one of the lads from Jersey shore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest whatatramp Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Timor reminds me of one of the lads from Jersey shore. Remember when he wore that shirt from the MG collection Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachelle of London Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Remember when he wore that shirt from the MG collection I can't even deal why the hell is he wearing female clothing aimed at 17 year olds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VogueMusic Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Can't complain about the article, really. Of course she doesn't 'need' defending...but hey, at least someone is writing something encouraging, basically saying "hey, do your thing, you have every right" vs. the usual ageist/sexist shit we normally get. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madonnasuperfan01 Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 This article wouldn't even have been written if she was a man. And her love life has not been that wild so i don't see the point. It's good to see positive articles about Madonna but at the same time it show more than ever the double standard between men and women in the entertainment industry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXL Posted July 16, 2014 Author Share Posted July 16, 2014 And I think brahim's from 1985. the DSS years Brahim was born in 1987 too All three of them are from 1987 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXL Posted July 16, 2014 Author Share Posted July 16, 2014 "Then there was French dancer Brahim Zaibat, who was born in 1988, the year “Like a Prayer” hit No. 1." WRONG! lol In the age of Google and Wiki there is just no excuse! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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