XXL Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 Of course they still are Why wouldn't they be? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaddysMuff Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 Aren't we forgetting someone!? Mauuuureeeeeen McFarland.. 'When Madonna's mom died..I remember feeling ugh..real..Aww-fall..' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrawberryBounce12 Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 Oh well, at least they'll always have "The Next Best Thing" which I absolutely love and adore regardless of the criticism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apples388 Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 You know, anytime she de-BFFs someone, as you put it, I'm surprised. And GOD knows she can hold a grudge. Madonna nixed "Dear Father" when she found out that Mic Murphy from The System had played a bass line on the track. Supposedly, Mic & Madonna clashed a few times in the early 80's & she never forgave him. That's why I'm equally surprised when she forgives someone. Example, Jennifer Lopez. After what J-Lo told Premiere magazine in the mid 90's, I figured she had sealed her fate with Madonna. And let's not forget Sandra Bernhard, I figured those two would hate each other forever. The big difference is that the "Dear Father" incident happened to pre-Kabbalah Madonna. Forgiving J-Ho and Sandra would be post-Kabbalah Madonna (Esther) and she'd pat herself on the back for forgiving the bitches because she'd think she was getting closer to the Light. On some level of course she'd know that she hasn't forgiven them at all and even if she had her motive would be a selfish one but which kinda negates the whole thing really given that you're supposed to destroy your Ego and all that but.. where was I again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glindathegood Posted August 1, 2010 Share Posted August 1, 2010 I'm so Pre-Kaballah. If someone talks bad about me and insults me, I don't forgive . Why should I respect someone if they can't respect me?There are so few people you can trust in this world . Most people are backstabbing bitches. I can totally understand why she cut out Rupert. The only people I really trust are my family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaddysMuff Posted August 1, 2010 Share Posted August 1, 2010 I'm so Pre-Kaballah. If someone talks bad about me and insults me, I don't forgive . Why should I respect someone if they can't respect me?There are so few people you can trust in this world . Most people are backstabbing bitches. I can totally understand why she cut out Rupert. The only people I really trust are my family. That explains some of your dramatic posts..... I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acko Posted August 1, 2010 Share Posted August 1, 2010 There's something odd about his account though.. He defended the adoption of David Banda by his 'friend' Madonna. He came out saying he couldn't wait 4 'Filth & Wisdom' 2 b released.. & I beleive they were spotted at a resatuarant together. Anyway, this was all months after the book was published.. But then maybe he was still hoping she'd return his messages at that point & has now finally given up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
afrolito Posted August 1, 2010 Share Posted August 1, 2010 Is there a rule that you must be friends with someone for life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Topaz Scorpio Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 I don't understand why him writing a book about HIS life is a betrayal against her. It's one thing when her brother goes and writes a book that is centered around HER, but this is Rupert writing about his own life and Madonna happens to come into it at various points, and played a big role for a few years. Is he supposed to just skip over that because she might get pissy? That being said, she has tended to have friends for certain periods and then moves on, not necessarily because they did anything wrong. I mean, I don't think she and Rosie are that close anymore, but they didn't have a falling out (I know Rosie blogged upset once about them drifting apart, but then they were seen together after that). Some friendships just fade out. I think Debi and Ingrid (if they're still close) may be her only real long-term friendships at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Coked Up Baby Boy Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 I've had a lot of good friendships that have faded out, and i'm only 25. If i was famous and had high profile friendships, i'm sure everyone would think i'm a friend hopper too, but i'm not, friends just come and go naturally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bluejean Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 Were they even that good of friends anyway? Didn't they just work together and then talk up their friendship for publicity? As for Madonna cutting people out, I have done it many times in my life. You don't have to stay in contact with people forever just for the sake of it if they serve no purpose in your life. Imagine how much harder friendships would be if you are a celebrity, people would be so fake all the time and try and leech off you. Especially other celebs in need of a publicity boost. Madonna is a busy woman, maybe she just forgot about Rupert in between touring the world, directing films, raising kids and going through a nasty divorce etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GimmeSomeMo Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 Well to be fair, you dont really FORGET friends or drop them if they serve no PURPOSE I mean what purpose can a friend SERVE anyway. Of course all that is for true friendships and not Hollywoods kissy kissy stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AntiVirgin Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 Maybe she came across this piece of treacle http://www.learningplaceonline.com/relationships/friends/reason-season.htm Many of us are fortunate enough to have friends who are a consistent part of our lives throughout all our ups and downs. However, sometimes others we consider friends appear to enter, then depart from our lives for reasons we try to, but don't always, understand. This piece nicely explains the flow of people in and out of our lives. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on. Then people come into your life for a SEASON, b ecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chuck82 Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 I'm so Pre-Kaballah. If someone talks bad about me and insults me, I don't forgive . Why should I respect someone if they can't respect me?There are so few people you can trust in this world . Most people are backstabbing bitches. I can totally understand why she cut out Rupert. The only people I really trust are my family. The only thing you can depend on is your familyyyyyyyyyyyyy.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horn Posted August 4, 2010 Author Share Posted August 4, 2010 Imagine how much harder friendships would be if you are a celebrity, people would be so fake all the time and try and leech off you. Especially other celebs in need of a publicity boost. People can be so cold Never want to turn your back Just givin' to get something Always wanting something back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horn Posted August 4, 2010 Author Share Posted August 4, 2010 The only thing you can depend on is your familyyyyyyyyyyyyy.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barney Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 She is still in touch with Sandra although not as close. Sandra said it when I went to see her. There have been pics of them together too. Sandra adores Lola and so does Sandras daughter so she said. She just took the piss out of M's accent and sang candy shop laughing about the line my suga is raw. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stephen Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 I've had a lot of good friendships that have faded out, and i'm only 25. If i was famous and had high profile friendships, i'm sure everyone would think i'm a friend hopper too, but i'm not, friends just come and go naturally. agree completely people come in and out of your life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chuck82 Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 the only thing you can depend on is yourselfffffffff.............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXL Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ADUSTIO Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 the only thing you can depend on is yourselfffffffff.............. Fuck I love that smiley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horn Posted August 4, 2010 Author Share Posted August 4, 2010 the only thing you can depend on is yourselfffffffff.............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Topaz Scorpio Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 Were they even that good of friends anyway? Didn't they just work together and then talk up their friendship for publicity? I seem to recall him talking about how they had first met back around 1985 when she was with Sean, and then they reconnected at various points through the years up until they began working together for TNBT. Their friendship seemed solid for several years, enough for him to earn an invite to her wedding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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