Okay, I understand it better now. Thanks, but I don't think Cis-women are saying they want trans people in to be in "spaces that match their sex"; they do recognise the need for trans spaces/ safety to. It's dangerous on both sides to twist each others point to demonise the other which needs to stop before everyone can sit together & ask the other "what are your concerns, what are u afraid of, what do u need me to do to help you"