Probed By Greys
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What if he hold a gun to your head?
After our long gun chat, I'm pretty confident he'd never go there. He felt horrible when he killed a rabbit. He owns 15 guns and an axe, but he just sees them as his toys. He's really a big softie.
If I do make an exit, my exit strategy is this. I plan to introduce him to other guys during 3somes. I'll tell him I enjoy 3somes and that i think he'd love having two cocks to play with at the same time. I'm sure I'll talk him into it. I'm assuming he'll start to like them also, once he has a few guys in his life, I think he'll start to not focus so much on me. I don't plan to leave and leave a void. If I do, he'll continue to focus on me, if I leave I need to make sure there are other guys around to take my place.
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You did read this thread, didn't you?
Well, I hope it remains just about sex. I do realize that if it was just sex he wanted that he'd be looking for various guys, not just coming back to me. But, since I want it to remain just FWB, I'd rather not look at it as anything more than just sex.
If he starts to get too attached, I'm going to start to look for a way to make a quick exit.
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wow! he's really into getting pounded by you. as you mentioned he's a horny dude, i bet that was the first thing came up in his head in the morning. i dunno what you did to him, but it must be really good. bravo!
Well, I don't think its me. Its just cock he wants. He likely would have gotten into any good looking guy fucking him, not just me. He's craving being fucked, but not necessarily by me. He feels he knows me now and he trusts me, its why he turns to me when he wants to get fucked, but that's about it.
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From the series of texts he sent you it sounds like he's pretty attached..
I don't think he's getting attached to me, he's likely getting addicted to gay sex. You need to put yourself in these guys shoes. These type of guys typically ignore any gay urges and focus on their heterosexual side so they can get married and have kids. Ignoring those gay urges only causes them to desire them more, when they finally act out on them, they tend to want it often. I think he's getting addicted to the felling of having a hard cock in his ass, not getting attached to me. At least I hope that's what it is, I do not in any way have any interest in having a serious relationship with him.
After those texts he said:
He kinda reminds me of...
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Dreams are test runs. It gives you an order of how you MAY react to something that you MAY experience.It was especially bizarre to me because I never have bizarre dreams. My dreams are usually very typical and rarely this bizarre. I definitely never dream of black cats and stuff like that.
After this happened I started to think about whether I ever saw anything witchcraft related at his house. All I remember ever seeing at his house was a Ouija board in his closet. But, that's nothing, lots of people own those. I don't believe in witchcraft anyways, I was just thinking of all the possible explanations for the bizarre dream.
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This morning something strange happened. I believe dreams are random thoughts. Usually you dream about whatever you're thinking the moment you fall asleep. Whenever people tell me about a dream they have, I tell them not to take it seriously. That it was just a random thing. I still believe that, but what happened this morning was quite strange. I had a very bizarre dream.
The dream started off in the kitchen. I saw an ugly big black bug on the kitchen floor. I tried to catch, but couldn't, eventually when I almost caught it, it started to fly around the room. Then the dream jumped to his wife telling me that what he's doing is dishonorable deterioration. She said a few things, but I remember "dishonorable" and "deterioration." Then the dream jumped forward and I was outside his house, ready to get into my car after one of our fuck sessions. As I get into my car I see a black cat walking down the street. It jumps into my car, then the dream jumped forward and the cat was in my bed. The cat wiggled his way into my arm, forcing me to hug it. At this point I noticed I was dreaming, since the dream took place back in my room, on my bed where I was sleeping. I then tried to wake up, when I woke up my arm was in the same position as it was in the dream, minus the cat obviously. As bizaree as the dream was, I felt it was a random dream. Then when I woke up I looked at my iPhone and this was there:
Alright, let's look for a logical explanation here. This happened in the early morning, when I was close to waking up. I'm thinking I heard my cellphone text noise when I was asleep, but didn't wake up, that caused me to think of him and that's what triggered the bizarre dream. Regardless, I can't say I feel comfortable with that bizarre dream. Maybe subconsciously I'm having a hard time with the wife situation. I say I don't have a problem with it, but maybe subconsciously I do?
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Probed- why exactly are ya fooling around with a married dude? (Seriously- aside from what already was posted)
Just a bad, bad idea- but people will do as they do.
I didn't care (or think much) about his wife, I just enjoyed him and focused on that. Married and bi-curious guys make great FWB because they will never get attached and want to date or take things seriously. It will always just be hot discreet sex. Gay guys tend to eventually get attached and usually end up wanting to date or take things more seriously. Gay guys often confuse love with lust.
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I don't hate you at all.. I think overall your a nice person (just kinda kooky). And not to be rude or anything but it's not like this is some deep conversation that needs to be taken seriously. This is a thread about fucking some confused married guy! so naturally it's the type of thread that will eventually go off the rails and turn into something different. I understand that you like to talk about stuff your dealing with etc and I think for the most part people said all that could be said about the situation. So what's the big deal?
And don't try and pigeon hole Madonnanation like it's so much different from other boards. ALL of them have threads that don't stay on topic it's just what happens with discussions. Sometimes I think you really just need to lighten up and have a good time. I have NEVER seen you joke around or anything and you take things very seriously I mean we are in "the lounge" after all.
I didn't say you hated me, I said you fall into the "haters & shit-stirrers" category. Humor & fun are subjective. Not everyone finds the same things funny and not everyone finds the same things fun. Some members here find humor in childish stuff like Mariah Carey KFC jokes. Not everyone finds those type of things humorous. Those type of jokes belong on an elementary school playground. But, that's just my opinion, I don't enjoy every thread ending because its overtaken by those type of childish jokes, but that's just my opinion. You enjoy that type of humor, but not everyone does.
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PBG, I always wanted to ask you this, silly question or not. But fo you ever see your "friends" outside of the bedroom? And I'm not talking about sex in public, but do you ever hang out with them?
It depends, I don't have a FWB rule book I follow
I take each person as an individual. Obviously the married, straight/closeted guys I'm not going to hang out with them in public. They want everything to remain discreet. The only time we hang out is when we are alone at their place. But, for the gay and bi guys, some of them we become real friends. It depends on the type of connection I have with them and where the friendship goes. Some of them I do become regular friends with them and we do hangout outside the bedroom. I don't have a problem with any of them wanting to be real friends, not just FWB, but I usually put the brakes when they want to start dating. I don't want to go there ATM. Take my friend A as an example. Last Friday/Sat night (I forget which night it was), we had very hot passionate sex where I ended up fucking him in every position possible. He wanted to go there and I followed his lead. It all was great, we had passionate sex that lasted over 2 hours. I enjoyed it, but near the end I started to noticed he was confusing love with lust. After it was over we layed in bed holding each other. I should probably mention that A is gay. As I held him a song played that said "you're all I'll ever need" as that played he held me tighter. That's when I knew he was confusing love with lust. It got worse, after that song "This is Love" by PJ Harvey played. At that point I thought to myself "of all the songs to play next, it had to be that one." I almost laughed when the song played. Luckily A didn't notice or he would have been offended. When "This is Love" played he started to gently caress me. Now I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I don't want to date him either. I'll just try to find a way to cut him loose gently because I don't want something serious with him. So yeah, I'm cool when a FWB becomes a real friend that I hang out with outside the bedroom, but I'm not cool when a guy wants to start dating, at least not right now. I don't want to go there ATM. -
I wonder what Shakira would think about all of this..
And there enters someone that comes into the "haters & shit-stirrers" category. These types of comments derail threads, then they all end the same, in a chaotic mess. Sure, the "haters & shit-stirrers" enjoy that, but what's the point in having threads with original content if you're going to turn it into a typical Mnation chaotic mess with all your pointless comments that are meant to derail the thread? Its similar to when Suedehead would come into a thread and yell childish insults, after that the thread would quickly end in typical Mnation chaotic fashion. You're doing the same thing by posting those type of comments. Just let the threads be and let people chat without resorting to childish shit-stirring comments that are going to derail the thread.
I'm sure you have something more original to contribute to this forum than typical baiting comments that are just meant to shit-stir. Anyone can do that. I'm sometimes surprised by how easily people are entertained on here. This place often resembles an elementary school playground.
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I'm sure you are worth more than having to settle for a cheating, gun-collecting, drug-using, possibly mental sex partner. There's plenty on this site would have NSA sexual encounters with you (but after reading this thread, they might not).
Its all just fun. I'm not going to have anything more than a friendship with him. I'm not settling for him. I have a few FWB's at the moment, not just him.
I'm not looking for a bf or a serious relationship at the moment. I'm just having fun with FWB types. If I was looking for bf, I would never date someone like him. He's just there for fun ATM.
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Haters and shit-sitters, stay away so I can continue to have a regular conversation about this.
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Alright, so I met with him again tonight. I decided to bond with him tonight and tell him as many gun related stories as I have to get him to feel comfortable with me. I felt that if he felt I was comfortable with guns and liked them, that he would open up to me about them. It worked. I found out that he's actually a big softie that owns 15 guns. We shared hunting stories and he mentioned that all he's ever killed was a rabbit and he felt really bad over it. So here we have Mr tough guy with 15 guys and an axe, yet he's only killed a rabbit and felt horrible after it was over! I also found out that he's a member of the NRA, all of his guns are legal and under his name. To him, they are his toys and he likes to play with them, that's why they are out. Another thing I found out is that he used to be in the military. He was in it for 4 years and then left early. Eventually he was comfortable enough to tell me he killed people in Afghanistan. At first he did't mention it, he just said "they always say, if someone in the military says they've killed someone, then they are lying. People that have really killed someone never talk about." Once we had been talking for while and I felt he was opening up to me, I asked him if he had killed someone and he said yes with a petrified look on his face. He seems to be traumatized over all those people he's killed in Afghanistan and is trying to block all that out of his mind. In fact, he says that he usually doesn't even tell people that's he's been in the military so he doesn't need to answer any war questions. That's why he seemed secretive at first, he did not tell me at first that he was in the military. So, there you have it. The real reason he own those guns.
I had noticed drugs at his house before, he says that he started using drugs to forget about everything he saw in Afghanistan. I was just there to listen, not to lecture, so I did not say anything to him about the drugs.
Also worth mentioning is that his dad is a hardcore conservative republican that watches fox news a lot.
He seems to fully trust me now and sees me as a friend, not just his fuck bud. I was thinking of ending it, but after tonight, I'm not sure anymore. After tonight, I feel like I completely understand him.
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you keep asking me about my life a lot. why??? why are you so interested in my life? what do you want from me?! who are you, and why me!!
I do not care about you whatsoever. I wonder why you obsess over me. Anyway, I shouldn't even give you the attention you want by acknowledging what you're doing. You're obviously a bored loser with no life that has nothing better to do.
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he thinks im his psychotic stalker... what a flicked in fucked up prune
Look up what a stalker does, you do the exact same thing, only online. The strange part is, why? Is your life so empty that you need to desperately hang on to every word a stranger says online? I suppose its to be expected, every online forum is going to have a loser with no life that chooses to follow others around online because he has very little going on in his real life.
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I need a couple hundred fuckbuddies (sans machine gun preferrably)
Wives optional.What you need is to get a life and stop stalking people online.
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let them stay envious
They are jealous, as Christina would say
Jokes aside, before people misinterpret what I said, I'm not saying my life is one of the most exciting in history or anything like that. I'm referring to the people at this forum that follow me around and keep track of every single thing I say. Their life can't be too exciting if they choose to follow the life of someone they don't even know so closely. There are those that live their life to the fullest, and those that watch from the sidelines and just criticize everything they see, this forum has quite a few of the latter.As for Gimme, its not really an issue with him and me. He also did the same thing to PudWacker. He obsesses over people online and borderlines on online stalking. It doesn't help his case that he practically lives at the forum. He needs to get out more.
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Why did I even try to get into a real conversation at this place. I should have known the sideline watching losers would come in and turn the thread into a mess. By the way, I'm referring to a select few, not most people here.
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Nobody is stalking you PBG or trying to harm you, they just poke some fun & you take it in all seriousness.
You tell these fantasy sex stories on daily basis.
What are you talking about. First, I haven't talked to you in ages. Second, this does not involve you. Third, I never talk about fantasy sex stories, everything I say is real.
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I think stamp collecting may be more up YOUR alley actually. After all, I'm not the one that has every guy I ever fucked sorted by asshole size written down in my IPHONE APP
And you continue, to follow everything I say and then bring it up later on. You'd enjoy your life more if you where THIS interested in your own life. You really need to get a life.
GimmeSomeMo... always following people around...
And for the record, you misquoted me, but then again, you always do.
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Like fuck married men?
And you continue... just commenting on the sidelines, like usual. You'll likely quote and misquote what I say later on, like usual, following everything I say.
You need to get out more or get a hobby. Maybe stamp collecting? That seems like something you'd enjoy.
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You seem like someone that just likes to stay on the sidelines commenting on everything they see, yet never really do anything interesting in their life.
Some forum members here follow everything I say. Now that is awkward. Those people need to get out more.
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I love when people get Shakiguy to talk and his weirdness comes out in all its glory
Your weirdness comes out every time you open your mouth.
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It sort of sounds like he's gay tbh. Of course bisexuality exists but then I sort of feel there are men who can have (and even enjoy) sex with women -serious pussy hounds sometimes, but who are just *gay*. I know someone like that. He treats girls like meat and notches up as many as he can, but there's a sort of misogyny and misery surrounding it. But especially in his community it's socially unnacceptable for him to be gay.
I'm starting to wonder that myself. Like I've mentioned, I don't want to be the bad guy, if he says he's bi then he's bi to me. I just go with what he says because we are just fuck buds. We are both in this just for fun. But, it does make me wonder when he desires being fucked so strongly. When his gf was on vacation for a week, he called me every single night. One day, we did it twice on the same day. Then there was last night, his gf was coming home at 2am, yet he wanted to get fucked instead. It seems like he loves being fucked more than pussy. But, to be honest, I don't really care. That's his problem to deal with, not mine. Whatever he tells me he is, that's what he is.
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I honestly can't reply to this anymore cause we're gonna just go around in circles. You're not understanding anything I'm trying to convey to you. All I can say is good luck to you and if he comes at you with the axe...DUCK.
I understand, I just don't feel the same way you do. I'm ok with what went on, and in your eyes what I did was morally wrong. We have different options on the situation. We view things different, but that's ok. I respect your opinion, I just don't view things the same way you do. In my eyes, I'm ok with what went on and that's really all that matters.I realize society views what I did as wrong, but I really don't care.
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In a normal relationship, I would do those things, but this guy is a fuck bud. I don't plan to be honest with him, I just want the exit strategy that involves the least amount of drama. Being honest with him could lead to drama.
Yes, in this situation I am putting myself first and not thinking of him very much or his wife. Most of the issues you and others bring up revolve around me thinking of him and his wife, I'm really not, and that's the root of all this. I see this experience as just fun. The right thing to do is to say no to him because he's married and the right thing to do is to be honest with him when I decide to move on. I know those things, but since I see this experience as just having fun with a fuck bud, I'm really not looking for the moral high ground here. I'm just looking for fun.
Everyone knows what the right thing to do is, but people don't always want to go down that route. A part of me enjoys doing the wrong thing in this situation. If that makes me crazy in your eyes, then so be it. Also, I really don't feel like I'm hurting anyone. He has the desire for cock, if it wasn't me it would be someone else. The only reason why I want to let him go gently is because I want to be sure he leaves me alone when I do decide to move on. He's not the most stable person to be dealing with, he's obsessive with his guns, with sex and even with drugs. He tends to obsess over things. Lying to him is the most smooth way out of this with the least amount of drama. If being honest with him meant a smooth exit for me, I would, but I think he'd try to convince me to keep meeting up with him.
Where I am being honest, is here in this thread.
Xanthie, why are you so passionate about me not thinking of his wife? Are you worried of how easy it is for guys to cheat and worried that your own bf might cheat on you? The latter is why I prefer a FWB over a bf. Guys cheat way too much. Over half the marriages in the US end in divorce, most end over cheating. Then there's the couples that settle with the cheating and stay together. The reality is that a lot of people are ok with having an affair with a married person or someone that's in a relationship. A lot of people don't take the moral high ground in these type of situations. They know what they are doing is wrong, but they are ok with it. They just want a fun fling. Dolly Parton even wrote a song about this: