People rarely ask themselves that very question, nor do they make the effort to see things through another person's lens. -That's too challenging, so instead, they rattle off statistics & voice THEIR opinion of OUR experiences. It's amazing how folks suddenly become interested in Black Issues when it comes to what I should & shouldn't be offended by. It's never really a conversation, because when we talk about race, the subject itself is a flame that needs to be doused immediately. This is why I don't reply.
& no shade to your friend, but I completely disagree with her opinion on non-POC's listening to Solo's new album, BUT that's OK! She's entitled to her opinion